How do you do it? I cave in everytime. I suppose it will get easier to say no, right? My H keeps asking me where I am going and who I am going with and then asks me if I have had sex with anyone else. I don't know what he wants.

I don't know all of the sitch from your last year with your H, but I would give just about anything for my H to want to come be with me and tell me he loves me. But, maybe your H does this to you a lot and lets you down. Don't worry about being 42 with a newborn. You will find the right guy for you. There are lots of men out there that are willing to be part of a family.

I can't wait to see how your sitch unfolds.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him