Hi guys...I need you all right now...

If you remember from my earlier thread (I'm in Agony Here...), I was struggling with my wife's LD and trying to get to the bottom of it. Many of you suggested that my wife might be having an affair. I dismissed that, and decided that it was menopause, work stress, etc., etc.

You were right. I was wrong. It's an emotional affair. No sex, but there might as well be...it feels just as devastating.

I'm currently staying at my best friend's house. Last night I stumbled upon her private little cache of emails on my best friend's computer.

I can't describe how I feel. I feel like I could just die right now.

Any words of encouragement you can give me will help. I'm trying to take one minute, one hour at a time. But it's hard...


Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden