If I were to create a similar list, I could make it in one sentence: I want to be lovers with my wife. Obviously, this includes lots of things, but it is VERY pshyically oriented, and it definitely requires a very strong sex drive on the womans part. What YOU were looking for is COMPANIONSHIP.
I will also tell you that the male sex drive is so high, that if our love life sucks, the rest of the marriage can NOT make up for that. You have to remember that mens primary goals in marriage are to win your desire and your admiration. Companionship is NOT the goal for him.
