Had D4 this weekend. Had a lot of fun picking out tins for the Xmas cookies we are making as gifts. Not much moolah this year so we are being creative. D4 can't wait to use the cookie cutters and decorate with colored sugar.
Hasbend has turned completely cold hearted. Refuses to even converse about anything except money and our child. Continuing to try and continue controlling me by the only two things we have left. He has been very manipulative with our daughter as of late. Springing last minute plans he has for her on me when she is with me. For example his friends childrens birthday parties, holiday gatherings and other family events he forgot about. Of course I am not allowed to bring her to the childrens parties because he "got those friends in the separation". Makes me want to puke. These are people I have known for 9 years. Now I can't be social with them? Sure you all have been done some variation of this path and frankly its immature and its hurtful.
Also, he refuses to call my home "Mommy's house" he continues to call it "Grampa's house". In all reality itis my Dad's duplex, but I am the one living there!
My 30th birthday is rapidly approaching and I think my gift to myself with be filing the petition for divorce.
The hasbend has made no efforts whatsoever to work on the marriage and frankly I think 2008 should be a year of change.
My 2 Cents for today. Usually I am good for some upbeat banter but today I am feeling blahhhhh.
Last edited by waw1978; 12/10/0703:21 PM.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
