Hi Cat,
Maybe you're sitch will work out like mine, and just as you really settling in for a long, uphill, battle, your H will suddenly flip a switch and surprise you. I hope so anyway. Although, slow and steady may be better in the long run (I'm still a little wary of my W's sudden change. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth though, right?).

Your H's depressin and ADHD certainly make things harder. I wish I knew more about those conditions and could understand better. I suspect that the basics for all of us are still the same, and good DBing is still appropriate. I'm convinced that GAL and taking care of ourselves is essential, but what else, I don't know.

As PS says, it is progress. One step back, two forward is still progress.

rooting for you!


M45, W45,S15, D10,
Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07
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