Probally not much you can say you just have to stay postive and let her see you as a better person through your actions. If she wants to talk then go ahead and talk, otherwise you don't bring up the R. Good luck.
Me - 34 W - 33 S - 5 D - 4 M - 14 years Bomb 1 Dec 06 Bomb 2 Aug 07 Separated - Aug 07 WAW Renting own place - Dec 07