All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[Evie]

Thanks for the slap 25 yrs,

I hear what your saying. H won't take the hint when I don't answer his calls/texts/emails. I think i need to spell it out for him? The riask is then that he won't contact me at all, he'll go to the other extreme. But i need some space, if he only wants friendship at this point then fine. I don't feel separated!!!!

I'm a little upset right b/c i've just had another email from him asking for my help to pack the boys ski stuff. I've already helped him sort the clothes out once, it's really painful for me and although this holiday is exciting for the boys and H, it's not for me. 3 out of my 4 siblings will be out of the country. H has said that he has laid all teh ski gear out in teh lounge, so when i get home, i'll be reminded that they're going away again.

I'm thinking of writing him a letter about backing off and leaving me alone a little? Is this a good idea?

Must go now.

X Eve