You knew this was coming and yet it is still a shock - you have been waiting for the other shoe to drop for months now - for way to long...My heart hurts for you but it also feels how it must be to get out of that limbo hell. You can finally start making real plans and either your H can wake up, get his head out of his a$$ and stop the process or you can get on with your life.
You are a wonderful woman and a great mom - you deserve to be at peace and truly happy!!!
I will email you later!
Hang in there!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing