Bear...great job today!!! I think being quiet with them forces them to think and helps their guilt to fester. I like to think that instead of me wondering what's going on in his head that he's the one wondering about me.
I think the hardest part of all of this is having to be so patient. There are no immediate answers.
Just keep doing what you did yesterday...it gets easier! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
