Just a note on your Hs stomach issue. When my W first left I couldn't really eat anything and when I did it came out the other end pretty quickly. I think that your body gets used to not eating and can't handle when you throw a bunch of food at it. It could be your Hs guilt that's making him feel that way, but it could be something else too. Also, his guilt could be over how he treated you and not because of OW. Just some food for thought.

It sounds like you had a great day. Be consistent and I think that you'll have more days like that. It seemed like a switch flipped in my W and all of a sudden she wanted to start talking to me and being around me again. I was pretty wary of it for a week or two and still kind of am. Take it slow.

Peace,
B


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

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