This weekend was incredible, the kind of incredible that almost makes me not want to write about it for fear that it was not real. Everything was great with the company that came: the house looked great, the kids behaved, the food was delicious, and the conversation was pleasant. One guest, an old friend of the family, spoke with us a lot and complimented me so much to my husband, noting many of the things that I have been working on. As people have said before, it is much more meaningful for the WAS to hear these things from a third party than from the LBS. H was so wonderful, full of touches and kindness (my Love Langauges are Physical Touch and Words of Affirmation, so I was in heaven). He even said ILY!!! The first time, I thought that it might have slipped out, so I decided to wait and see if he said it again. He did. After all the suffering and hard work of real emotional growth, I so hope that I am turning the corner here to a really new relationship.
Goals
Keep H's love tank full to the brim Make the holidays special for the kids Take time and a bit of money for some GAL activities