Do you see how your acting differently yesterday produced a different reaction in your H? You backed off and didn't put any pressure on him and it sounds like you had a really nice day. Now you have a model for future interactions. Experiment and monitor the results. You did really good today. I wish that I could give you a real hug, but a virtual one will have to suffice. (((bear)))

Peace,
B


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
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