Do you see how your acting differently yesterday produced a different reaction in your H? You backed off and didn't put any pressure on him and it sounds like you had a really nice day. Now you have a model for future interactions. Experiment and monitor the results. You did really good today. I wish that I could give you a real hug, but a virtual one will have to suffice. (((bear)))
Peace, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008