Sounds like you got a small positive tonight . Good for you. Keep that feeling close to your heart. It makes the As If attitude so much easier. Be happy and enjoy your happiness. Rooting for you!
As for the going in the house thing. If she invites you I would go in. I wouldn't let H in for awhile and had my locks changed too. (mine was cuz of a break in shortly after he left) But I think if she invites you into the home go. It lets her feel a little bit of trust again and that could be very important. Just make sure you don't over stay your welcome. Good Luck!
Me:32 H: 34 T: 12 YEARS M: ALMOST 5 S: 8 D: 4 S: 14 (OTHER R) SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it) NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants) MOVED HOME 12/01/08 I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans