... Just like the comment you made to Jar that if it was you you wouldn't have even called your wife to let her know daughter was in emergency room. That is terrible and a total power struggle going on in your mind. It was like you said,she chose this so deal with the losses that may come your way. If your daughter is lying in an emergency room and it's during my time oh well you chose this life. That's not fair and believe me she would have ammo in court.
I feel like I need to defend myself regarding this comment.
Imagine if you will, if you are in this situation: You are divorced. The other spouse is re-married. Living their own happy existence. And you have the kids, and one of them gets sick or hurt. And you need to take them to urgent care. Do you call the ex-spouse?
You know, if I'm in that situation, I would not call my ex-wife. No. As a parent, I would handle it. And we would leave the urgent care and we would all be OK. I would tell my ex-wife about it later. The upshot is that the presence of the other parent would not have been necessary in the situation that jar outlined. It was not a life-threatening situation. No serious trauma. Just a visit to the ED (or urgent care, I forgot).
Let me ask you this: If the kid needed a filling, would you invite (or expect to be invited) to the event? I didn't think so.
