Jar...Im in the same boat my friend. I envision my W and OM being together for quite some time and then splitting up.

Now that you've reached this point, thats when WAW's typically come back... keep that in mind.

I was done with my marriage too (didnt even really think about her and thoughts of her with another man didnt bother me) and she came running back.

Go dark dude... also make sure you are in the right frame of mind before you start dating, dont make the same mistake I did.

Heal first and then date. Trust me, you'll thank me for it.

Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07