So.. W and I had a "text" extension of the temp check.
Nothing earth shattering. She still blames me.. I'm the callous inconsiderate one.
She is so immature and naive that it's becoming ridiculous. I finally asked her if she was happy and she said she was.
Nothing I can do with that. I'm done pursuing. I'm done trying. Who knows how long it will take, but she has to grow up quite a bit and be happy with herself. I honestly see her and OM getting married and getting divorced over the next 10 years.
I wish I could just let her go. I wish I didn't have to deal with the "just friends" aspect of the breakup.
The D's make that impossible. That's what will make this so hard. I can't make her grow up, but she will be damaging the girls while she is figuring all this out. I wish there was a way to get sole custody. It would be much easier. I'm ready to cut her loose. I deserve MUCH better. All she has complained about is how badly she was treated. She has no idea how good she had it... not sure she ever will.
I've learned from this experience. I've learned quite a bit about women and a little as to how they tick. Very intriguing. I'll be the wiser for it the next go round.
Might not post for a while.. I'm really feeling like I'm done this time around. No sense posting here if I'm no longer trying to save the M.
I'll probably check in from time to time to see how some of you fine folks are doing. Good luck to all of you!! You all deserve the very best in life and I hope you get it!!
