WAW hasn't walked yet, but emotionally dead

[mako]

Not much new to report here. W said via e-mail yesterday that she might stop by today to pick up her mail. But she thought I was going to be out of town, I guess she changed her mind when I responded that I would be there--she never showed, and not even a call or e-mail to let me know.

This is all helping with detachment. I have almost no desire to talk to her anymore. The lack of courtesy and respect just kills me. She can't respond to e-mails or calls for several days, can't have the courtesy to let me know if she's coming when she says she probably will, can't look me in the eye when we've talked, and now can't even face me...all this lip service about wanting to be my friend, I wish she'd just have been upfront with me how she doesn't want anything to do with me, cause this is not how you treat a friend.

I can sure see how most LBS don't have the patience to wait around for the WAS to break out of their funk, I have no desire at all to be with someone--or even friends with someone--who treats their "friends" like this. Perhaps if she ever comes back to some semi-normal state and shows me a little respect as a person I'd be willing to be friends with her, but I can't see it right now.