I Was Almost A WAW....Still (Next Thread)

[Dom R]

Anyway, the holidays are upon us and I am probably just pulling people down that read my stitch, so I think I will take a break from the board.

Sandi.... last time you took a break from an outside look at your situation... what happened?

things spiraled down... you felt even worse.

yes, you feel bad.
yes, your husband feels bad.

weigh the alternatives of "doing something", vs "doing nothing".

Given your situation, "doing nothing" is quite likely to make things worse between you. Which will make both of you feel even worse.

you know that's why i'm pushing you. Because, judging by your recent past, "doing nothing", is about the worst thing you can choose right now.

That may be why you're running away, also. Because you know that you could make things better... and facing that, may scare you.
It would be a new, unknown life for you... and the unknown sometimes scares us.

please don't try to force me to do something when I am trying to tell you that I am not in a good place right now (emotionally or physically or with my H) to do it.

what's going to bring you to "a good place", Sandi?

You have 10 years of proof, that "doing nothing", wont do that.

Dont wait until you feel good, to do something.

Do something, so that you will feel good!

You will feel so much better after talking to your husband about this! He loves you... you know this too. He is waiting for you.