It's good that you are still communicating. If you let the divorce go final you probably have a lot of work to do. However, fixing a mistake takes a lot of work, and if you are committed to making the sacrifices than you have a shot.
My divorce will be final next week at some point. We signed a mediation agreemtn last week. If my wife came back I certainly would listen long and hard.
Me: 47 Pet: Kind labrador, 12 years old. Best Friend anybody could have.
Divorce final 12/07/07 No Kids
It is no longer about the divorce or about her. It's all about how I live my life now.