After some thought regarding conversation with WAW when picking up 5D,
Positives 1) She was really down, I don't think this has anything to do with 5D going to be with me for next 4 days. Don't really think it has anything to do with me either. 2) She shared some unnecessary things with me, roaming puppies, lack of money, etc... 3) I got a few chances to show moving on/acceptance, such as giving her phone number to land line, looking into new job, paying for 5D medical insurance every other year, ... 4) I got to say it was ,"That was just sick, not doing that anymore" emphatically in regards to overage on cell minutes. This validates her feeling that I am sick, but it also says I am done. She knows I am not calling people anymore. 5) Her financial sitch is not good. 6) No talk about D. 7) No talk about R. 8) Although she has x-mas tree up, it is no where near decorated and thus makes it clear she is just not happy. 9) I was confident and strong showing a content person and certainly not in the least bit pursuing or needy, etc... 10) I have no reason to make contact or see WAW until 24th...thus giving basically a month of darkness, where I have the next 2 weekends without 5D, with this one pickup mixed in.
Negatives 1) Missed opportunity to say something like, "I am sorry to hear that" when she talked about lack of rent money. 2) Talked to much about us both getting separated bills for same thing. This did open more conversation but it was repetitive. 3) No talk about R.
Undecided 1) I did not mention getting more stuff. If I do, I will give her less notice and do it Saturday. However, I do not exactly want reminders of her around. So, I might just get it and sell it. 2) Stuff was missing from boat when I came home from church. If I tell WAW, she will just worry about 5D. If I don't she will probably find out and it will be worse. Things like that happen in the country when you leave your stuff out, but ...
