Houndfan, I swear I am not trying to be negative with you, but you are going to have to recognize some things that are going on with her. First, you cannot win, you are going to have to understand this. I know you think I am crazy for saying that, but everything you do is going to be wrong. If you do some things "right" she might or might not acknowledge them, but eventually you are going to make mistakes, as you have said in your postings and she is going to jump all over them. She is LOOKING for things that you do wrong, she is doing this to justify her actions. Read the resources at the top of the page and you will gain a clearer insight into what is happening. If you are going to hang in there and try to save your marriage, you are going to have to deal with this and expect her to be highly critical of everything you do, no matter how small it is, she is going to pick, pick, pick at everything. Its just getting started my friend. Been where you are, done all that, don't want to experience it again.
