(((HUGS))) donna, I'm sorry, honey. I agree with ot, good for H for redirecting you, but I know that hurts and I know its not what you want.

I'm still not very clear how your IC talking to your H will help you let go, but I hope you do find it helps.

take care of yourself. glad you had a good time at church and have fun with the kids.

the holidays are a huge hurdle. trust me, I know.

M-41
H-38
M-10 years, T-14 years
Bomb-PA 3/19/07
Separated-6/7/07
Piecing/h back home 5/08
S-6
S-4
D-4

"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher