W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

[Lanzo]

Ok, this morning I put the disappointment from a couple of days ago behind me and got to work on some things which would get positive results.

I vacuumed the house from top to bottom, cleaned out the bathroom, and then got to work in the kitchen, washing a few dishes that were in the sink. W joined me in the kitchen and we chatted about the previous evenings dinner, D6, and a few various other things. We then got on to talking about our Christmas decorations, and those of our neighbours. (Here's the good part) W starts talking about how we can enhance our decorations for next year so that we are not outdone by the neighbours. Hmmm, it's good that she's talking about us and about next year so I have to take that as a positive.(another baby step).

All in all it was a nice low key chat with W, I guess the mistake some people make at this point is to now push for R talk. Part of me is itching to do that just to try and get a handle on where I'm up to in all of this, but I know I need to hold off.

I must remember to keep my expectation low and I will avoid disappointment. (I think that's right ?).


I'm still trying to get some interaction going with an experienced DB'er. I still feel as though I'm entering uncharted teritory. plus I've made 5 post in a row without any feedback.