I asked if he wanted to stay for dinner later and he said it was too hard to be here. I wonder if it is guilt.
It is. He cannot bear to be around what he walked away from. It hurts him.
I don't think it's an act. This is how my H was, too. It's also very hard for you to be around him right now because you don't know what to do to help him, and it makes you sad. I remember.
He's got to come to the point of wanting help, mopsey. When he can't stand feeling this badly anymore, he will.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
