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[mrarow]

Some Goals for my relationship to improve with my wife.

1)Bring Wife's Affection Back into our marriage
-W to reach and hold my hand
-W to initiate kiss me more often (has give out a couple goodbye kisses last week)
-W to initiate Hug or cuddle

2)Stop the feelings of Mistrust when W is away
- call me while away
- tell me if there is contact with OM (Has told me about some of them now)
- spend more time together (we are still going on dates and doing things together with kids ect.)

3)Me to continue to be a better listener and continue to hear her needs and feeling without reacting or turning it into about all me. IE: continue to grow bigger ears and smaller mouth

4)W to stop all contact with OM IE: Stop affair

5)W to commitment to working on this relationship. IE: Get off fence

6) W to start Joint marriage counselling.(presently we are having separate counselling only)

7)W to be open and honest with her wants, needs, feelings and emotions

8)To be intimate at least once or twice a week

9)Be allowed back in bed. IE: Sleep together again