thanks Bhopeful...I dont disagree with you. I did push and did assume her bad mood was because of me. Im not sure I hounded about the ring, but I thought I should at least ask, and I did softly.
I guess I'm taking the 'i want to be your friend' line as a ILYBNILWY line and shes either trying to soften the blow or just say were finished and I want you to go away. It's pretty difficult to feel like being a good friend when I sort of feel like a one way doormat right now.
I feel like I'm on the edge of blowing my top and telling her if she's going to be so distant and disrespectful that she should just pack up her stuff now and get out of here.