Sophiel - thanks for visiting my thread - You are very stressed, which is probably why you got so angry - sort of dispaced everything on to other things.
But - try not to sweat the small stuff. One of teh things I have learned from MLC is not to worry about things that don't matter. But don't beat yourself up. Having an affair isn't acutally very nice behvaiour, and you know, and they know that saying you aren't in love with your spouse anymore doesn't really make it OK.
That is their mantra - it is OK because I don't love my spouse/
In most religions that is not an opt out clause. God didn't say - Don't commit adultery, unless of course you find you no longer love your spouse, in which case guys, well who am I to judge . . . .
So don't beat yourself up over this.
Incidentally BND's h was pretty vitriolic around April 06 - if I remember correctly. She re-posted some of the emails he had sent her after he decided to come home [around September 06 I think] and really they were unbelievable!!
