Im in the same boat as you with regards to my WAH. He's cold and unfeeling. Today he told me,in fact, that he wouldnt feel anything if i got hit by a car and died. Hows that for cold? He wants the divorce and i dont. Here where i live, i have to actually agree to file and he wants it IMMEDIATLY. Ive only had a month to even process that he doesnt "love me any more" A month ago he was my lifetime partner
I dont know how anyone else gets through hearing those things and continuing to DB. They say to believe none of what you hear. In my heart I know its anger speaking. But I dont think I can continue taking it. I know without a doubt that the things that I did to hurt my husband, I could change (and will regardless of what happens). But he did some serious stuff too and is taking no responsibility for it, and wants to be with other women rather than repair us. He doesnt care to stick around and have me fix it, and never even mentioned any of these things bugging him while we were together. What else can I do?
It IS a very lonely road.
I hope someone has some words of wisdom and positive things to say; im too new at this and too much in my own grief over today's events to be perky!
