My first thought when reading was ... man, this guy knows what he wants
It actually helped me a lot to write it out for you -- it's not like I actually analyze ever woman I meet by this criteria. But now I might!
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my second thought ... I want a wife like that too, this is the almost perfect woman (I know, I know, I will stick with men) ....
Oh come on -- why not stick your hands in both cookie jars! That could meet another piece of my criteria!
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I wish that you find that special person. And I think that you will. Just one thing to add as a caring BB friend: maybe it would be helpful to think about which stuff are you willing to let go if you find a person who fits your description 80-90% and which will be the ones that you will not compromise.
Oh, I know that finding someone who meets EVERY piece of criteria is very unlikely, but I wrote to you what the IDEAL is for me. Didn't think you wanted to hear what I'd settle for.
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Until then here are a few characteristics that I find important in a men: intelligence, integrity, kindness, respect, ambition, loyalty... he has to like kids...
Sweet, I'm in! jk
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I am not at all impressed by muscles
I just wonder what the majority of women think about big, toned muscles vs avg sized, toned muscles. Does the avg woman like bigger guys or avg sized guys (I'm 5'10", 165 lbs)? What is your experience here?
That could meet another piece of my criteria! 
