I meant to add, mark, that you are likely part of that circle for her, which is one of the reasons she is having a hard time letting you go, too.
I was the same for H. he went into some pretty classic co-dependent panic attacks when he felt me moving away from him this summer. but the more he filled his circle with ow, the less he needed me. the thing is, he didn't have some reason like your w does with omg, to erase her or lessen her impact in his circle. she just grew to be a bigger and bigger part of it, so it became easier for him to move away from me. not that I should be there anyway...its something only he can complete, noone else.
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