Hey jar, glad you tested the waters with W. If you were completely done with trying with her, than I would say "no water testing", but you still want your marriage, so today was a good thing. You held your line ("I can't open up to you and our relationship when you are seeing someone"), but told her you still had feelings for her. The call to her lawyer was her defense mechanism kicking in.
Glad the photos went well! Of course the D's smiled on, they know what's up!!!
