interesting...

but here's something to consider;
there's "bad/angry mood at *you*"... and then there's "everything else".

If he's generally depressed... if he's generally sad... rather than specifically upset at you personally... then, suitably rephrased, what you have to say to him, should *cheer him up* !

Have you considered that one of the reasons he may be depressed... could be the same reason you are depressed? because he's unhappy about the state of your marriage?

You coming to him, with "here's a way I'd like to look at, for us both to improve our marriage", could give him hope. Something to look forward to.


Last edited by Dom R; 12/09/07 07:18 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle