I know today he will tell me he does not want to continue in this marriage.
I know today he will tell me he is going to fla for xmas.
Yes, he may tell you this today. It's how you handle it thats more important. Your husband does many things with you. He takes you out to dinner, he helps prepare dinner, you go shopping and do errands together. He's not doing all of this because of guilt. There still is a connection between you, as he would not want to do any of this if he did not choose to be with you. Let him go for Christmas let him tell you he's not happy. This does not mean you need to lift one finger to help him. You do not need to mention divorce, nor agree to it. Let him do all the work.
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I want to listen today I truly do, I want him to talk to me, really talk. not just say you did this and you did that and you won't do this.
Sigh, this is the worst part. Your not really going to hear the truth from him, you will hear guilt speaking truth. If he does put blame on you, do not take it to heart. Just listen and reply your sorry he feels this way.
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what i said yesterday was not for guilt purposes, it was to show him, i am human, and you are hurting me. The opportunity presented it self and i took it.
I will do my best and find the strength to keep my mouth shut today if he talks to me.
So am i to give in, and just agree with him, that if he wants a divorce just say yes and give in. Does not sound right to me
You've held off from letting your feelings go for the longest. I am very proud of you for this. I am positive he knows your feelings.
Once again, you do not have to agree to the divorce if this is what he tells you. Let him do what he needs to do. You need to take care of bear.
I hurt so much for you. I wish this had not of gotten this far ror you. I truly believed things were changing, I knew you were. I had hoped he was doing the same.
I am sending you prayers your way.
Jeanette
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Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
