Long and Bumpy Road 2be continued...

[Startingover2]

I often wondered if my d16's acting out is because of me and the sich. Her and I have always butted heads but for some reason when I became pregnant her and I got along great! I think she thought that dh and I would reconcile and things would be good. For almost 2 weeks now since I haven't had dh around d16 and I have not been getting along well. Maybe its because my life is not working out once again and she is frustrated/angry.

I think you are right about laying it out for dh. I don't want him if he has OW. I don't want him if he still drinks. I know he is trying to come back in slowly without having to do anything. I was just wondering if I was going overboard as it goes against some db principles to give ulitmatums. It seems if you were dbing (which I did most of our separation) I would be the woman he wanted to come home to. I did that and all he did was cake eat.

Thank you so much for responding....I look to this site so much.