That doesn't sound like it was a very constructive conversation. Next time he calls like that you should just let him go instead of trying to carry on a sleepy and drunken conversation. I don't imagine that you felt very positive after that interaction. Maybe make a rule for yourself that you don't answer your phone after a certain time of the night. Try to set yourself up for success.
Peace, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008