Mark,

Your oldest two kids are at an age when they are going to start getting lippy and questioning things. It's hard enough to deal with them when they hit these ages if your M is good and both S's are working together in harmony. Don't blame everything on the M problems.

Anger is very destructive and keeps walls up. I know it's hard to let go of but hopefully now you have let rip a bit you can try and move forwards again.

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength