Mark no I don't know what it's like to be a man. That also could have been the reason my own husband was unhappy. As he has made that same comment before. Something I also did a 180 on. Our marriage was bad so I got used to depending on myself and doing for my kid's. I kind of threw him out of the equation. So I myself am far from perfect.
I guess I was just worried about the kid's being in the anger. Sometime's it can be a lot better to just seperate then to let them see things like this. Maybe you could set up a dinner date with her and really sit down and talk about things. Somewhere where she will have to be civil kind of of. Just talk from the heart on where your at. How you feel. Ask her how she feels. Tell her right from the bat I don't want this to be screaming. Just us talking to get a better understanding of where we stand. Without anger.