Jeanette

I know today he will tell me he does not want to continue in this marriage.

I know today he will tell me he is going to fla for xmas.

So I cannot say i don't agree with ending this marriage. its ok for him to make my decision for me, without me having a say

All i want to say about him going to fla is if you feel you need to go to clear you head and it will bring you back to me than i cannot and will not stop you.

cant say that either can i

I want to listen today I truly do, I want him to talk to me, really talk. not just say you did this and you did that and you won't do this.

what i said yesterday was not for guilt purposes, it was to show him, i am human, and you are hurting me. The opportunity presented it self and i took it.

I will do my best and find the strength to keep my mouth shut today if he talks to me.

So am i to give in, and just agree with him, that if he wants a divorce just say yes and give in. Does not sound right to me

I am going to church in a little while, maybe it will bring me some comfort

((hugs))
bear


Me 42-Him 40
T20yrs Married 16yrs
2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce