Hi L hope you can remember me its inpain!! Sorry I haven't been on for an absolute age I've been dealing with a lot of stuff. Just wondered how things are going with you and your H, I see you're still together and you say he's getting kinder. I have some fantastic news at my end....I'm expecting our second child in March!!! It is exactly a year tomorrow that DH said he wanted to come home and try again. Who would have believed I'd be having a baby a year later!? I really hope things are going as well for you. x