Time For Me to Fly

[saffie]

Is there any love left there at all for your W Mark?

Love and hate are very closely linked IMHO. Or are you indifferent and numb to her most of the time?

You have to do what you believe is right for you and your children. From what you say I think your W may have some big problems with valuing herself. She does not sound as though deep down she is very confident and she needs external validation of her worth. She probably got it from you until the children were born and then from the children when they were small.

Now the children are older and not so dependent on her and you invest your love in your children. I think she is crying out for help but not receptive to it and if you have had enough I don't know what else you can do.

I am so sorry Mark.

Saffie