One more thing. Over the past few weeks, she has said to me more than once, "We need to move on." And my reply has always been the same. "Go ahead. Move on." Or. "OK. Pull the trigger."
I am convinced that she doesn't have the sack to do it. She says she wants out, but she doesn't have the guts to file (or even approach me regarding a serious discussion of a settlement... or even make an appointment for both of us to see a lawyer!).
I am now faced with two choices. I can either DB/PMA away, acting as-if, and tolerate her disrespectful behavior. Or I can stand up for myself. Either way, the outcome will be the same.
