Mark,

First off, yes enough is enough, and having been in contact with you over the months, you have taken enough. She is on a different planet. How much is someone supposed to endure? As much as they can handle I guess, but when does it get to the point when you are just gettting taken advantage of and sh$t all over.

Yes she is really left the building... and you my dear have to stand up for yourself and you kids that is your job now. You are already doing that. Her MLC is NO excuse for the way she treats you or her children.. its not acceptable.

You do what is best for you, not every M can be saved, you've given it your all and that's all you can do. 15 months is a long time, especially when there has been very very few positives on her end. You can't continue to go through your life like this.. life is too short.

Take care my friend... ((((hugs)))

tal


me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.