Cat, That's why piecing is SO hard. Obviously, we got to this point in our M for a reason. It's because we and our spouses fell into destructive patterns of behaviors. And as we piece, it's a lot of work for both parties to realize what they need to change and actually change them. It is very easy to fall into old behavior patterns. But with each level of realization, you are moving forward.
This is progress. You are moving forward. Keep up the good work!
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
