Dom is spot on.

Welcome to limbo land, yes it sucks.

Best thing you can do is give him space. If he wants to come back it must be on his terms. I know this is VERY difficult and I did not do it well while DBing.

A lot of serious damage was done in my marriage. 99% sure we are getting divorced. I am now in the acceptance phase that our relationship is over.

Either way you will be ok.