Lis and Cat, Thanks for your kind words. I miss my Bogey very much. I have had a hard week. H is dealing with it much differently. But we are two different people and we deal wtih things differently.
Things with H still giong well. But sometimes I find myself thinking about all that happened. I think about OW. I get angry. I think about what others must think of me that I am still with my H. I know most of the people in my life think I'm crazy for still being here. I mean, things got really bad with H for a while there.
The other night, I went out to dinner with three of my girlfriends. Before our mess started, the four of us with our Hs woudl go out all the time. I called us "the click". The four couples of us got along really well. The men would go uot for guys nights. The girls would go out for girls nights. And as coupoles, we all went out.
But when this all happened, the all pretty much thought H was the biggest jerk on the planet. Frankly, he was. Anyway, they all still go out and we don't get the invite (as couples). I go out with the girls still. I can't say I blame them, but it makes me feel badly that even now, with H moved back home, we don't get the "couple" invite.
I guess that will take time, as with anything else.
I hope and pray that H stays on the road to recovery. I hope and pray that H has learned from this. I hope and pray that we can continue to build a strong M.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
