No, Rob. I am not standing for my marriage. Not any more. I am standing for myself and for my kids. We deserve better than what she is providing. I am completely fed up with being treated with such contempt. I have had absolutely enough. For my own sake and for the sake of my kids, I feel like I need to draw a line in the sand.

I get the whole f-ed up MLC thing. However, I don't want to look back on these events and question my ability to stand up for myself. I don't understand why a MLC is a free-pass for her to act with such contempt toward me.

And when is it "enough?" I don't see how a rational adult can tolerate this kind of behavior month after month. It's been 15 months for me. I think that's just about enough.

This is not about marriage any more. It's about demonstrating respect. She has none for me. None at all. Zero. And I have had enough.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9