Patience Brit. I think that is the key in your situation. Your consistency is what I think is keeping her coming back. I do see positives in your situation. The fact that you're being more "touchy" and she's not pulling away. She's coming to you for advice. She seems to be putting an effort into spending time with you and D. It seems like she feels that she can come to you with whatever is on her mind. So kudos to you for making all this happen. You really are a wonderful example of putting the DB principles into action.

You kind of skipped over it pretty quick, but was it hard to ignore your anniversary? Are you doing ok with that? You seem to talk a lot about how your W is feeling, but how have you been emotionally lately? Make sure that you're not bottling all this up inside. It may come boiling over at some point and hurt a lot of the progress that you've made. I'm not saying that it will happen, but I'm just wondering...


Me: 29
W: 28
T: 10
M: 7
No kids
2 Dogs and 1 Cat
With Parents: 09/16/07
Apartment: 10/13/07
Back Home: ~2/16/2008

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