Dinner with the IL's and their friends went well.

As we were waiting for our pick up, I was adjusting my clothes in the mirror. I hadn't noticed W was stood behind me but she said "I have to say this Lan, but you look very smart tonight". Wow thanks !!! working on me does work and W does notice things I do. That compliment gave me a big lift made me feel a lot better.

Interactions with W over dinner were good, we actually talked to each other and not just the other people.

Too be honest if W had not stayed out the previous night showing signs that she was with OM I would have said this weekend was good. If a take a positive spin, what if W wasn't with OM, ok if this was the case then the weekend has been good so far.

PS: If my previous posts have been a bit winey, its because I'm on this long journey and I feel as though I'm entering uncharted territory, on my own. I don't like it, and it's a bit scary. I see people who have come as far as me getting a breakthrough and I'm pleased for them all, however I can't see one for me anytime soon. Ah well back to applying my best DB principles.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing