Hey GD, didn't have time to come back with a fair reply to your post on CVA's thread and by the time I popped in, it was locked ... but, since I had done my thinking on the subject I needed to throw my thoughts out here...

You were right I was referring to characteristics that are beyond superifical and you described your likes very precisely - thanks for that, it was a good read, we know a lot of stuff, but to hear it spelled out by a guy always has a stronger impact.
My first thought when reading was ... man, this guy knows what he wants \:\) ... my second thought ... I want a wife like that too, this is the almost perfect woman (I know, I know, I will stick with men) ....
GD, there are so many people (women and men), who aren't even sure about their own traits let alone what they want from their mates (beyond looks and obvious stuff). I think what you wrote down there speaks so much more about you than you think. To be able to articulate one's needs so well means one has to be very stable, confident and clear about their own core values. GD all I can say is ... I wish that you find that special person. And I think that you will. Just one thing to add as a caring BB friend: maybe it would be helpful to think about which stuff are you willing to let go if you find a person who fits your description 80-90% and which will be the ones that you will not compromise.

Now to answer your question:
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what is physically & emotionally attractive to you regarding men


I don't yet have such a clear list of what I want from men ... but I just decided that I am going to put one together in the near future. Until then here are a few characteristics that I find important in a men: intelligence, integrity, kindness, respect, ambition, loyalty ;\) (isn't this a sore point), he has to like kids... looks are not that important, I am not at all impressed by muscles ... but you know I think the guy could be totally average looking but as I get to know him, he will be drop dead handsome to me as the R strengthens.

That's all that comes to my mind right now, but I will come up with more.

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