Please, I'm looking for help. My wife and I have been separated for 3 months and I desperately want to get back together. She filed for divorce a month and a half after separating... very fast. But she's always been fast about things. Her parents never liked me and are helping her financially to make sure the divorce goes through. We live in California, so it will take at least until April before the divorce is final. We have 3 children. I've read DB and am in the middle of trying LRT however I have stumbled and fallen more than once. That said, I think she wants to get back together... if I didn't keep falling.
Yesterday I went to pick up ornaments at our house (I'm in an apartment 3 miles away) and she started to cry when talking about the relationship. I held firm, being cool and calm. But when I got home I broke down, wanting so bad to call her... send her a song... do SOMETHING.
I guess... what I'm saying is that I don't feel like I'm going to be able to keep doing the LRT. I'll keep reaching out until its too late. Is there anyone out there who has tried and failed doing the LRT. Better yet... is there anyone who did it successfully?
If you guys are in talking terms and seem like she can talk to you when she sees you why are you doing the LRT? she actually talked about your R. Would she go to councelign with you? have you tried inviting her to go out just the two of you?
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
